Do you most often find it difficult to try to be holy outside of Mass or other Catholic events and gatherings? Do you think that holiness is only for the super saintly and not for you?

Mother Angelica has you covered! Here are some wonderful tips from her writings, collected into the book Mother Angelica’s Guide to Practical Holiness.

1. Holiness is for everyone!

“Holiness of life is not the right of a selected few – it is the obligation, the call and the will of God for every Christian. We cannot put up stumbling blocks of well-defined excuses to argue our way out of the reality that ‘our purification is the Will of God’. We were created by God for the main aim of radiating His Son, Jesus, in our own special and amazing way. We give Him glory by freely choosing to be what His Wisdom created us to be,” explains Mother Angelica.

What a beautiful reminder that we are good and enough in ourselves because God created us so!

2. The saints were imperfect while they lived on earth

The saints were all sinners who turned their lives towards God and lived for His glory in their own diverse ways. This means that any of us can be and are called to be saints.

Mother Angelica points out the similarities we find in all the lives of the saints. “Love for God and neighbor, determination to imitate Jesus; an immediate rising after a fall, a complete breakaway from grievous sin, growth in virtue and prayer, and the fulfillment of God’s Will,” she expresses.

When broken down like this, holiness doesn’t seem so insurmountable or far away, but something we can grasp at and even reach with the assistance of His grace. And the saints give us such hope that anyone can turn from a life of sin and unite their will with God’s.

3. “If it wasn’t for people, we could all be holy”

Obviously, is not easy loving our neighbors at all times and learning to love each other as God loves each of us individually! But just as God comes to us in Love, so, too, must we go to each other in love.

“When we understand we cannot transform our neighbor except through love and example, we seek new ways of prayer – new secrets of the spiritual life that will help us to overcome. This is the work of supernatural self-knowledge. When, in the midst of some failure to respond to demands of the present moment, we receive a light that makes us see ourselves, see God’s pruning hand, see future good in present turmoil, then we are experiencing supernatural self-knowledge. It brings acknowledgment of our weakness, repentance, compassion for self and neighbor, determination to do better and a deeper love for God whose grace gives us light to see the truth without been afraid. Our neighbor may cause a demand on our virtue, but we ourselves are the cause of our reply to that demand,” says Mother Angelica.

4. Desire God’s will to be done on earth as it is in Heaven

“The angels must look upon us with surprise as we question and rebel against God’s Will in our lives,” writes Mother Angelica. “What we are really saying to God in our rebellion is that we know better than He does the things that are for our happiness in this life and necessary for our salvation.”

The angels understand that God knows all and that they know less; how much less do we know? Of course, there’s a distinction between not comprehending and questioning God’s Will. Mother Angelica uses the instances of Zechariah and Mary to show this: “Zechariah questioned God’s power and wisdom. Mary, however, only wondered how God would fulfill the message He had given her. She asked for direction. There was no question in her heart, only how she could accomplish His wishes.”

5. Practice detachment

Mother Angelica explains that it is not essentially in owning things that we become attached but in what they impose. She mentions things such as a fear of loss, greed for more, and short-term satisfaction. “I wonder if the best way to become detached is to have a great attachment to God,” she explains.

She goes ahead to say that detachment is negative, so we must replace these things with something better. “Where, my soul, is the balance between compassion and detachment, giving for today and not being anxious for tomorrow, having things and not possessing them, deeply caring and being unselfish? The balance is a deep and strong love for God. All lesser loves fade away in the presence of a great Love – and here is the balance and the answer to detachment: Supernatural Love.”

6. Recognize the positive effects of self-denial

Mother Angelica explains that there is a long list of positive effects of denying ourselves and reaching outward to God and neighbor. Our love is multiplied, patience grows, and temperance becomes stronger. We’ll be able to see that justice is sweetened in our lives, gentleness gives way to self-control, humility is preserved, and prudence becomes easy. Fortitude is strengthened and our joy grows stronger.

Aren’t these amazing things to grow in and obtain! “The more I make my will stronger with self-denial, the greater is my self-control. Peace of soul is preserved, and the reflection of Jesus grows brighter and brighter,” explains Mother Angelica.

7. Remember that spiritual dryness isn’t a bad thing!

“It often occurs that after I have decided to follow the Lord I suddenly feel a strange emptiness and a distaste for anything spiritual if I am sincerely trying to do His Will and love my neighbor, then I know this dryness is for my good. The Lord is sanctifying my soul of all selfishness so I may love Him for Himself alone,” Mother Angelica explains.

It is said the Saint Teresa of Calcutta passed through spiritual dryness for most of her missionary life. Saint John of the Cross wrote an epic poem on this phenomenon called “The Dark Night of the Soul”. Saint Teresa of Avila wrote about this in her book Interior Castle.

In all circumstances, those afflicted knew that God was still present and that He never left them. They discovered that this was a deeper detachment from the world and way to learn to love God only.

Don’t be discouraged if you experience this – be motivated! You are learning to love God for Who He is rather than who you want Him to be and you are drawing ever closer to Him.

8. Live the Beatitudes

“When we accept God on His terms, we do His Will – when we embrace ourselves as we are, we identify our weaknesses and our absolute dependence upon His grace. This dependence makes us realize God’s Will is superior to our own and this reality permits us to see our neighbor in a new light. We accept him as he is. When our neighbor is angry, then we are called by God to be gentle at that moment, for our neighbor is in need of seeing gentleness – we are self-effacing,” Mother Angelica expresses.

Embrace God as He is, embrace ourselves as we are, accept our neighbor as he is– these simple steps will aid us love as God loves and bring ourselves and others closer to Him.

For more on these topics and a host of other ones, get a copy of Mother Angelica’s Guide to Practical Holiness. 

 

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